You know how you feel like you’ll never love again when you have your first heartbreak?  Whilst I am happily married now, I remember my first heartbreak. It was not with my first boyfriend. I remember it took me more than a year to get over him and during that time, I always thought… what if I’d always love him? What if I regret my decisions when I’m 90 years old? What if nobody can compare to him? (Spoiler alert: I don’t even remember his face anymore, let alone have these thoughts occur!) After my first heartbreak, I remember feeling so hesitant about seeing someone. The first guy I had a crush on after the heartbreak, I doubted all the…

Last weekend, my friend and I talked about relationship problems. It was refreshing to hear a man’s perspective because oftentimes, I usually hear it from the woman’s perspective. I’m sure you’re all familiar with this scenario. Where two individuals start seeing each other but it’s not been defined and he/she/they is starting to give the other person mixed signals. One person seems to be giving more than the other. One person is starting to get confused and stressed out. I’ve been on both spectrums of this scenario. I’ve been a victim and I’ve been the one who was “playing” as well. Both are not a fun place to be, especially if you’re the one relentlessly chasing the other person. From…